Structured, high touch support for individuals and couples who want clarity, not chaos.
Every relationship story is different. Your coaching package should be, too. Instead of squeezing you into a generic program, we design a pace and structure that fits your reality, your nervous system, and the level of change you are ready for.
Whether you are navigating betrayal, distance, or a major decision about your relationship, these packages give you steady support and clear structure without turning your healing into a commodity.
This work is not about clocking hours. It is about precision, emotional steadiness, and a clear path forward.
We begin with an Initial Foundation Session. From there, we decide together what level of support serves you best. Some clients need a focused, short-term container. Others need a deeper season of work with room for repair, grief, and rebuilding.
Across all packages, you can expect:
These are the primary ways this work is structured. We may customize elements to fit your schedule, the intensity of your situation, and the level of privacy you require.
A focused series of sessions to stabilize your situation, clarify patterns, and set a direction.
Steady, longer-term support for individuals or couples rebuilding trust or navigating complex dynamics.
Sometimes life does not allow for a slow pace. For clients who need focused, high-level support in a compressed timeframe, full-day and half-day options are available.
These are best suited for:
Intensives may take place in my Westchester County space, a private off-site location, or your home or office when concierge work is appropriate. We combine deep conversation, structured exercises, and clear planning so you leave with both insight and a map for what comes next.
Many of my clients live outside Westchester County and New York City. Virtual packages offer the same depth of work, with additional flexibility across time zones.
For virtual clients, the work typically includes:
Whether you are in another part of the U.S. or abroad, we will design a package that honors your schedule and keeps you moving steadily forward.
You do not have to decide your package alone or in advance. The point of the Initial Foundation Session is to understand what you are facing and what level of support will actually serve you.
During that first conversation, we will consider:
From there, we design a package that is tailored, honest, and workable — not performative or overwhelming.
You do not have to commit to a long process to start. You only need enough courage for one grounded conversation about what is happening and what you need next.
In your Initial Foundation Session, we will map your situation, clarify your options, and discuss what kind of package would actually support what you’re dealing with right now.
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A few reflections from people I’ve supported through real life transitions.
Shirley A.
“Working with Vanessa has been a transformative experience. Her genuine caring and compassionate nature created a safe space for me.”
Ira S.
“Vanessa is amazing at listening and understanding. She really cares about you as a person and what you’ve gone through.”
Clayre R.
“Vanessa’s compassion rings through each interaction. She nurtures you back into believing in yourself.”
Chris D.
“After speaking with Vanessa, I feel empowered and ready to work. Her ‘understanding ear’ makes personal growth possible.”
Gee Gee
“Vanessa’s personal attention makes you feel valued as an individual. She has helped me shine through to reach a better place.”
Steve C.
“Working with Vanessa gave me steadiness when my life fell apart. She didn’t rush me, fix me, or tell me what to feel. She helped me find my footing again and trust myself through loss and into something new.”
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