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Work With Vanessa Cardenas

Relationship Reset Coaching for Individuals and Couples in Westchester County and NYC

You have built the business, led the team, carried the family. On the outside, you are the steady one, the person everyone turns to.

Behind closed doors, the relationship that should feel like home has become a place of distance, tension, betrayal, or quiet ache. You may feel alone next to someone you love, or unsure how to repair what has been broken.

You are not lost. You are under supported.

This is not about having a diagnosis. It is not about being fixed. This is about a reset, grounded, strategic, emotionally intelligent support designed for people who lead everywhere else and are finally ready to lead in love too.

I work with individuals and couples who want clarity instead of cliches, depth instead of performance, and honest transformation instead of recycled advice. If that describes you, you are in the right place.

How Relationship Reset Coaching Works

This is discreet, strategic, transformation driven guidance for accomplished, emotionally aware individuals and couples who are navigating complex relationship moments.

Clients come to me when they are facing:

  • betrayal, infidelity, or broken trust
  • growing distance or emotional shutdown
  • repeating conflict patterns that never resolve
  • overwhelm, confusion, or decision paralysis
  • fear of losing the relationship or themselves
  • difficulty trusting again after past hurt
  • a desire to reset the relationship instead of walking away

You bring self awareness and the willingness to do the work. Together, we create structure and strategy that help you shift what feels stuck

What working together can look like:

  • Weekly or biweekly private sessions for individuals or couples
  • Full day Relationship Reset Intensives, virtual or in person, for accelerated clarity and repair
  • Private Ask Me Anything sessions when you need grounded guidance before committing to a larger process

Sometimes one honest, well held conversation changes the entire direction of a story.

Who This Coaching Is For

This work is designed for people who are capable and self aware, yet still feel stuck in the one area that matters most.

My clients often:

  • want connection without losing themselves in the process
  • are done with surface level advice and performative healing
  • value emotional intelligence, self reflection, and honest feedback
  • want momentum, direction, and meaningful change, not more theory

They include executives, entrepreneurs, high achievers, and parents. Some are healing after betrayal. Others are reclaiming themselves after years of self abandonment. All are here because they refuse to stay stuck.

Why This Relationship Coaching Is Different

This approach helps you create clarity and sustainable change at your pace; not a one-size-fits-all program.

This process is built for those who:

  • value truth over temporary comfort
  • want sustainable change, not short term relief
  • prefer guidance grounded in lived experience, not only theory
  • need support that respects their time, intellect, and emotional depth

Transformation is not a commodity. Healing does not happen on templates. I do not compete on hours, pricing, or packages, because what we do here is not comparable to anything else.

What You Deserve in a Relationship Reset Process

Many people notice a shift when they receive support aligned with their story.

  • Expert support shaped around your specific story
  • A process grounded in honesty, not performance
  • Support that builds real emotional clarity and momentum
  • A practitioner who brings insights, presence, and precision, not just credentials

What Clients Notice First

  • Relief from decision paralysis
  • Confidence in their path forward
  • A sense of internal steadiness not dependent on others

That is what I offer. That is why this work changes people’s lives.

If You Are Ready to Begin Coaching

When you’re ready for clarity and intention, we begin with one grounded conversation.

Whether you choose a full day immersion or one pivotal session, we begin with one grounded conversation that tells the truth you have been holding.

You are not broken. You are becoming more aligned, more aware, and more yourself.

Let us get you back to the relationship, and the self, you know is possible.

Book an Initial Foundation Session

Frequently Asked Questions About Relationship Coaching

Yes. Many clients begin individually. We focus on stabilizing your emotions, clarifying what is happening, and shifting the patterns you are participating in. Often, your work creates enough change that a partner becomes more open to participating later.
No. This is relationship coaching. The work is future focused and action oriented. We look at communication, boundaries, repair, and next steps. Therapy often focuses on diagnosis, treatment, and deeper clinical concerns. Coaching can complement therapy, but it does not replace it.
I offer both. Many clients meet with me in person in Westchester County. Others work with me virtually from New York City and beyond. We will choose the format that best supports your life and your nervous system.
In your Initial Foundation Session, we map what is happening, what you have already tried, and where you most need clarity. You leave with a clearer picture of your patterns, your options, and what a reset could look like for you.
It depends on your goals. Some people choose a short, focused series of sessions. Others stay longer as they move through betrayal recovery, reconnection, or major life transitions. We will discuss a plan that fits your circumstances rather than forcing a preset timeline.
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