Have a Question First?
Email me directly if you are unsure where to begin or want to briefly explain what is happening before scheduling.
You may know something needs to change without knowing exactly what kind of support makes sense yet.
If you are reaching out because trust has been broken, communication keeps collapsing, the relationship feels disconnected, or you are trying to understand what comes next, you do not need to have the entire situation organized before you contact me.
Email me directly if you are unsure where to begin or want to briefly explain what is happening before scheduling.
The Foundation Session is a 90-minute working session for individuals and couples who want to understand what is happening, what needs attention, and what the next phase of the work may require.
If you already know you are ready to begin, you can choose an available appointment below.
The Foundation Session gives us time to look at the relationship as it is now, not simply the latest argument or the event that finally made you reach out.
Understanding Ear offers private relationship coaching, Relationship Reset work, and betrayal recovery support for individuals and couples looking for an alternative to traditional marriage counseling.
Sessions are available from my Peekskill office and virtually when appropriate.
Understanding Ear
Vanessa Cardenas
Relationship Reset Expert &
Betrayal Recovery Specialist
8 John Walsh Blvd, Suite 406B
Peekskill, NY 10566
Based in Westchester County and serving clients throughout neighboring Putnam County, the Hudson Valley, New York City, and virtually beyond the local area.
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