“You are the real deal—unabashedly real. You never blow smoke up my ass… you weave shared details into a story that makes me realize the amazing woman you’re describing is me.”
Emily B.
Garrison, New York
Testimonials · Relationship Reset Coaching · Betrayal Recovery Support
Client Testimonials for Vanessa Cardenas
Relationship Reset Expert & Betrayal Recovery Specialist · Real results for individuals and couples. Real words from people who wanted steadiness, clarity, and a relationship reset that actually changed patterns.
People come to this work when they want steadiness, not platitudes. When they need relationship reset coaching and betrayal recovery support that doesn’t rush, judge, or oversimplify what they’re living through.
The reflections below come from individuals and couples navigating betrayal, emotional disconnection, and major relationship decisions. They wanted clarity, honest communication, and a way forward that didn’t require losing themselves in the process.
These testimonials include clients local to Westchester County and NYC, as well as virtual clients nationwide. Some are named. Many choose privacy, especially those with high-visibility or high-responsibility lives.
If you want to learn more about how this work is structured, visit Work With Vanessa.
Featured Client Reflections
Scroll (or swipe) for highlights. These are some of the most representative “this changed things” moments.
“Our intensive session was simply life-changing. I feel so much better, armed with tools to help me stay present.”
Jenny H.
Irvington, New York
“It’s amazing how much better I feel… in just a few sessions, I feel 20 pounds lighter and free from the low-grade fear I have been carrying for decades.”
Diana K.
Sleepy Hollow, New York
“Thank you SO MUCH for working with me on such short notice. Having you just hear and see me was exactly what I needed right at that moment.”
Ellen W.
Irvington, New York
“A true professional is fiercely loyal, incredibly honest, and compassionate. I’m honored to be coached by you.”
Christine D.
Cranbury, New Jersey
“Vanessa made a real difference in our marriage… after trying multiple therapists, including a well-known and expensive provider in NYC, she was the first person whose support actually shifted things.”
M. Walsh
Westchester, NY
A Note on Privacy
Many of my clients do not leave public reviews. They are founders, executives, high-achievers, and high-visibility lives. Their confidentiality matters. When names are abbreviated or withheld, it’s intentional.
If you’re looking for support after betrayal, explore Couples Coaching After Infidelity. For general couples work, visit Couples Coaching in Westchester County.
More Client Feedback
A broader sample of the notes I receive — across relationship repair, betrayal recovery, self-trust, and major life transitions.
“Vanessa's no-nonsense approach and compassionate guidance made all the difference. I finally feel like I’m back in control of my life and my relationships.”
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“Vanessa's insights were eye-opening. She helped me take accountability in ways I never thought possible and showed me how to truly show up for my family.”
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“I’m still sitting in the depths of what I experienced. It was deep… I always feel seen and heard during our sessions.”
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“You take the time to truly listen, intelligently and intuitively process and reflect back in a way that always leaves me with insight.”
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“Thank you for believing in me and encouraging me to be my ultimate authentic self.”
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“You are extremely attentive and attuned… even weeks later, I feel so much better. Thank you for giving me the freedom to let loose.”
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“You always get me to find a solution within myself.”
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“Anything I need help with, you always help me find my way. It’s a great feeling to know I always have your support.”
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“You have wonderful energy and such an open, engaging manner; you are a great coach!”
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“Thanks, Vanessa. It was a very powerful, intense 4-hour session for me. Sending much love and well wishes from Paris.”
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“Simply put, I feel so much better—finally clear-headed and ready to take on life again without inner criticism.”
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“Working with Vanessa taught me how to communicate honestly and effectively. I’m now rebuilding a stronger connection with my wife, one step at a time.”
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More Highlights
Additional feedback related to relationship coaching for relationship resets and betrayal recovery
“Thank you for guiding and pushing me to be who I was meant to be. Yes, I give my permission to share with the world 😊”
Marilyn R.
Yorktown Heights, New York
“You have an energy that makes me feel safe to share my secret desires with you… and you never judge me for any of them.”
Christina S.
Westport, Connecticut
“I can't believe how much better I feel after our first session. I look forward to moving mountains with you, encouraging me the whole way.”
Jennie R.
Westport, Connecticut
“You are generous and caring… an amazing coach and mentor because you have such patience and wisdom!”
Valerie A.
Charleston, South Carolina
“Vanessa helped me see the root of my actions and how they impacted my wife. Her guidance gave me the tools I needed to rebuild trust.”
Maxwell G.
Mohegan Lake, New York
“Vanessa Cardenas is truly remarkable… she has an extraordinary ability to connect with individuals on a deeply personal level.”
Anita P.
Private client
If You’re Here Because You’re At a Crossroads
You don’t need to be “ready” in a perfect way. You just need a private place where what’s true can be said clearly, and where your next steps are guided by steadiness instead of fear.
Explore options on Work With Vanessa or begin with an Initial Foundation Session via my scheduling link.
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