I believe relationships ebb and flow, too often we become complacent partners, unable to string together meaningful words. My mission is to resurrect the art of communication and resuscitate the heart yearning for connection, helping individuals and couples transform their relationships into spaces of trust, intimacy, and authenticity.
Through our Initial Foundation Sessions, clients discover HOPE (Hold On, Pain Ends) and receive a curated roadmap tailored exclusively to their unique relationship needs. I focus on providing compassionate, actionable guidance - saying what needs to be said, not just what's easy to hear - because
...every heart deserves to feel seen, heard, and deeply connected.
Vanessa Cardenas
Relationship Recovery Expert | Betrayal Recovery Specialist
At the Warrior Women Within Summit, Vanessa Cardenas' presentation,
Mirror, Mirror: Conversations with the Self You Need to Hear,
was a deeply moving journey of self-discovery.
Blending her background as a Betrayal Recovery Specialist with personal experiences, she expertly guided attendees towards self-compassion and strength, helping them feel seen and validated in their internal struggles.
Highly recommended!
JP Horgan | Producer | Next Steps Productions
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Testimonials
Vanessa Cardenas delivered a truly exceptional presentation at the Love You Now Conference leaving an indelible mark on our audience.
With a genuine and magnetic presence, she instantly connected with attendees by sharing her personal journey and growth. Vanessa's emphasis on the power of empathy and transformative learning resonated deeply,
reminding us all of the importance of compassionate communication.
She skillfully wove Viktor Frankl's and Eric Edmeades's wisdom into her presentation, highlighting that adversity, like betrayal, can be a catalyst for profound personal transformation. Vanessa's own story of resilience, from a
place of despair to rebuilding her life, was both moving and inspiring. Her honesty in exposing her vulnerabilities was a testament to the human spirit's capacity for healing and growth.
With a perfect blend of seriousness and humor, Vanessa engaged, enlightened, and empowered our audience. Her words will undoubtedly continue to resonate with those fortunate enough to hear her speak, making
her a remarkable figure in the world of public speaking. Vanessa is, without a doubt, a catalyst for transformation and healing.
Without hesitation, I wholeheartedly endorse Vanessa Cardenas as a speaker who can inspire, educate, and empower individuals on their journey toward healing and personal growth. Vanessa Cardenas is a true luminary in the world of public speaking, and her presence on any stage will be unforgettable.
KayLee Dunn, LCSW, BNC
Host of Love You Now Conference, 2023
I'm the host of the Forgive and Thrive podcast, and I recently had a beautiful conversation with Vanessa Cardenas on a topic that many can relate to: infidelity and how one can recover from it.
Vanessa is a wonderful speaker, a joy to talk to, and a guest that requires NO editing—always appreciated!
She served my audience with so much value, relevant information, and tips, graciously answering all my questions. If you are looking for a guest to cover infidelity and betrayal, I sincerely recommend Vanessa Cardenas.
Rossana Dragani
I saw you speak at the Love Now conference, and you were so inspirational. You are a wonderful speaker with a powerful message, and I was sitting on the edge of my seat listening the whole time. Anyone looking fir a guest would be gifted by your appearance on their podcast. Keep sharing your wisdom with the masses. It's truly transformational.
JP Horgan
You were a fantastic guest!! Thanks so much for showing up as You!
Jean Border
Vanessa is a truly inspiring speaker and podcast guest. It's clear to me that she has lived her own story and uses her own message to help others. The logo for my podcast is a rising Phoenix, signifying rebirth from tragedy and adversity. It's clear that Vanessa has taken the mindset of growth from tragedy and embodies the physical representation of the Phoenix rising better, stronger, and wiser from the flames of adversity. I truly hope her message reaches and inspires those of us who are battling with one of the most unique and deep sources of pain, heartbreak through betrayal, to do the same."
Cody Jones, Host
Pure Wisdom Podcast, LLC
Testimonial
Vanessa Cardenas's presentation at the Warrior Women Within Summit was a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit in the face of betrayal.
As a seasoned Betrayal Recovery Specialist and transformational coach, Vanessa's talk resonated deeply with attendees as she shared powerful personal stories, vulnerability, and insights on betrayal recovery. Her enthusiasm and passion for her work were palpable, creating an atmosphere of empowerment and inspiration.
Vanessa's presentation went beyond just sharing stories; she provided actionable steps on how to reclaim personal power and quiet one’s “nasty chick voice”. Her expertise, grounded in the Hindsight Window theory, allowed attendees to reframe negative events and see betrayal as an opportunity for growth, gratitude, and renewed purpose.
Vanessa's dedication to guiding individuals on the path to healing and empowering them to reach their full potential was evident throughout her presentation, making it a standout session at the summit. Her unwavering commitment to self-love, self-trust, and personal transformation left a lasting impact on everyone.
Katie Mae Vasicek
Testimonial
Vanessa's role as the MC at the Warrior Women Within Summit was nothing short of exceptional.
Her service went above and beyond, leaving a lasting impression on everyone in attendance.
Vanessa's captivating speeches were delivered with grace, confidence, and a genuine passion for empowering others.
Her stylish approach added an extra layer of sophistication to the event, while her heart-centered leadership was evident in every interaction.
Vanessa effortlessly connected with the crowd and other speakers, creating an atmosphere of warmth and camaraderie.
She truly embodies the essence of a warrior woman, inspiring others to embrace their inner strength and lead with authenticity.
It was an honor to witness Vanessa's leadership in action, and I have no doubt that she will continue to positively impact lives in big ways wherever she goes.
JP Horgan | Producer | Next Steps Productions
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